Stand & Carry Sex Position (+ PICS) + 4 Intense Variations
Make your man melt in orgasmic bliss using the Stand & Carry sex position. If you want him to become addicted to sex with you, then you need to try it.
by Sean Jameson
When your man is holding you in the air, you need to carry some of your weight using your arms around the back of his neck. Your legs wrapped around his waist can also carry some of your weight.
Even though your man will be doing a lot of the thrusting, you can still pull yourself up and down on him. You can pull yourself up with your arms, and you can squeeze your legs against his waist to grip it so that you can move upwards. When in the Stand & Carry position, you can lean backwards quite a bit or hold yourself close to your man to change the angle he enters you at.
You want to be careful not to do anything to upset the balance of your bodies, which can cause you to fail.
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Because you’re facing each other, you can kiss passionately to make it more intense.
What The Guy Does In The Stand & Carry Position
Your man has two jobs in the Stand & Carry position. The first is holding on to you and supporting most of your weight. The second is thrusting into you. He will be holding onto you by wrapping his hands around your waist. He can thrust into you by bending and straightening his legs. Or he can use his hips while keeping his legs fairly straight.
Things To Consider When Performing The Stand & Carry Position
Quite a few students of the Bad Girls Bible have tried out the Stand & Carry with their man. Here is some of the feedback they have given on it:
- The Stand & Carry is tiring: performing it for more than 2-3 minutes is exhausting for both of you.
- Try performing the Stand & Carry while having sex against a wall, so that your back is up against it. This will help take some of your weight meaning you and your man can last longer in it. He will also be able to fuck you with more force when you are against a wall.
- This sex position might not provide the best G-spot stimulation because you’re concerned about standing.
Variations of Stand & Carry And Similar Positions
The Stand & Carry position is going to get tiring for both of you very quickly. Fortunately, there are a bunch of very enjoyable alternatives:
Ballerina
If you can extend your leg straight up, you’re perfect for this position. Learn more about the Ballerina position here.
Dancer
Standing on one leg means that your man doesn’t have to worry about carrying you. Click here to discover how to perform the Dancer position.
Slow Dance
Face each other in this sensual, standing position. You can learn more about the Slow Dance position here.
Mastery
If he sits and you’re in his lap, it’s easier on both of you. Click here to learn more about the Mastery position.
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You’ll also find 20 more exotic sex positions here.
Sean’s Thoughts On The Stand & Carry Sex Position
The Stand & Carry is not that difficult to perform. The only thing that it requires is that both of you have a considerable amount of strength. If your man has a bad back, then I highly recommend that he avoids the Stand & Carry as it will put a lot of strain on it.
Alternatively, you can use a sex swing to perform the Stand & Carry position, so that the sex swing is carrying most of the weight and not putting a strain on your back.
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I want to tell you about my friend Karen.
Karen came to me one day. She was hysterical.
She told me that her marriage was falling apart because she and her husband didn’t have satisfying sex.
Every time they were intimate, Karen was faking her orgasms. It turns out she couldn’t orgasm during sex.
In fact…
She never had an orgasm in her entire life. Not one!
This left her feeling embarrassed and ashamed.
Even worse…
She stopped wanting sex with her husband, slowly driving him away, and…
Almost destroying her marriage. Thankfully…
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I shared the process with Karen.
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We met up a few months later and…
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Even if you currently struggle to orgasm during sex or while masturbating, this process will also work for you.
And best of all, you don’t need to do anything weird or uncomfortable to start having the best orgasms and sex of your life.
I want to tell you about my friend Karen.
Karen came to me one day. She was hysterical.
She told me that her marriage was falling apart because she and her husband didn’t have satisfying sex.
Every time they were intimate, Karen was faking her orgasms. It turns out she couldn’t orgasm during sex.
In fact…
She never had an orgasm in her entire life. Not one!
This left her feeling embarrassed and ashamed.
Even worse…
She stopped wanting sex with her husband, slowly driving him away, and…
Almost destroying her marriage. Thankfully…
It turns out that there is a simple solution for women who struggle to orgasm, whether you are having sex or masturbating.
I shared the process with Karen.
After she followed the simple process, she could barely come to terms with how…
Quickly and dramatically her sex life changed.
We met up a few months later and…
She would not stop talking about it,
“I thought I was one of those women who couldn’t orgasm. I used to think I was ‘broken’ and ‘unfixable.’ This saved my sex life, and that saved my marriage.”
Even if you currently struggle to orgasm during sex or while masturbating, this process will also work for you.
And best of all, you don’t need to do anything weird or uncomfortable to start having the best orgasms and sex of your life.
Sean is the editor of Bad Girls Bible and responsible for recruiting our team of sex and relationship experts. When he’s not fastidiously checking for proper syntax or fixing bugs on the site, he’s working with illustrators to make the Bad Girls Bible more beautiful and ensuring that our weekly email newsletter goes out on time.
- Sophiasays
December 7, 2012 at 12:38 am
Holly shit, my man and I went crazy with this position! He totally was going crazy!! Love it and ur blog!! Thanks u helped a lot!!
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- johnsays
April 24, 2016 at 9:39 am
My girl came in this position in 2 minutes, she never came so fast before in any other position, good stuff indeed 🙂
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- DeVon Cartersays
November 4, 2018 at 3:45 am
Which position is that??
Reply 69. Tasketsays
June 18, 2016 at 9:58 pm
This is the first time we had sex, and we went straight to this pose. She loved it, I loved it and it’s not that hard to do.
Reply 70. Lucassays
August 3, 2016 at 5:08 am
Same here. But tiring.
Reply 71. NVsays
January 21, 2017 at 10:40 am
almost never came back to life cause i just wanted to sank in heaven in this position. this is my most wanted position but i want to have no strength at all in this position and my man would have to be 100 strong and do ALL of the work while i enjoy being slammed into the cock and have the bouncy-ness of his body when i get slammed pushes me back away and using his arm and strength to slam me hard against him again.
Reply 72. blablasexislifetheysaysays
June 9, 2017 at 1:14 pm
why do people expect so much of sex;
its lame 0.O
Reply 73. Sergiosays
October 2, 2019 at 8:29 pm
My girl comes so quick in the stand and carry position luckily I go to the gym so I’m able to carry her comfortably. We both absolutely love it.
Reply 74. Leo&Crissays
April 14, 2020 at 8:01 pm
Well, me and my wife love this position, but i am leaving a comment to share the experience we had with this position, my wife is not to tall, so i recommend to try this position with her legs up man’s shoulders, so with the penetration, she will swing on cock. The best part, man don’t need to be to “strong” to carry her weight. Only need to penetrate her with her lie down but already with her legs up man’s shoulders. Man only need to carry her to stand on feet, after that, the positin will be like a “child’s swing”. We just wanted to share, once we learn a lot with this website. (Sorry for my bad wrote english, we are portuguese and english is a bit hard for us)
Now i want say thank to this website, it set fire on our marriage, that we missed so much ?
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